No one talks about how hard it is to write a speech for graduation. If your school is like mine you’re basically told to figure it out. I listened to a lot of graduation speeches from previous years as well as some college graduation speeches to get an idea of how it is supposed to sound. I figured I would share all the tips I found in order to create a speech you are truly proud of.

Try Not to Sound Generic

When listening to all the graduation speeches from the past they make vague references and honestly all sound the same. Blah Blah Blah end of our day blah blah blah. When creating your speech include your personality. If you are witty, make some jokes. There are a lot of different ways to make your speech unique to you. One really good example of this would be a speech I saw where the kid connected the experience of the graduates to a rubik’s cube. He started the speech stating that students are mixed up and confused and then went through each year of high school while solving the rubik’s cube. This was a super fun unique speech and showcased one of the skills he was proud of.

Keep it Short

No offense but no one wants to hear you talk on and on about your high school experience. A lot of people there are supporting another graduate and simply want to celebrate them graduating not hear a speech for 30 minutes. Keeping it short also allows you to keep the attention of the crowd. You don’t want anybody dozing off before the class has even received their diplomas. I would keep your speech within 2-3 minutes.

Be Emotional

You are not a robot so don’t read like one. Even if your speech is only 2-3 minutes if you read in monotone you are going to lose your audience. When I was watching speeches my favorites were always when the speaker would light up with a memory or even cry. Understanding that its okay to be emotional will add extra depth to your speech and make it memorable. You’re graduating, it’s an emotional time for everyone so show that throughout your speech.

Look up

This kind of goes without saying but make sure your eyes are not glued to the paper. A lot of schools may request that you memorize your speech but most allow you to have a paper to read off of. If you do have a paper make sure you are looking up at your audience. Even if you don’t look at the entire audience, find 2-3 people that you can look at so that it seems like you’re looking at the crowd. This can be hard for a lot of people that are not comfortable with public speaking but it’s an important aspect to keep people engaged in what you are saying.

Don’t Over Hype or Under Sell Your School

Even though you are graduating and you won’t be going back to high school it still looks bad to lie. In your speech it’s important to stay true to yourself and bring up fond memories but if you overhype your experience your class will not appreciate that in your speech. Similarly if you undersell your school and start bashing on the staff or other aspects of the school it will only make you look worse. Refrain from being disrespectful and dishonest in your speech as much as possible.

Get Personal

If you don’t normally talk like Albert Einstein don’t do it in the speech. Yes it will be heard by a large audience and you most likely want to make yourself look smart and respectable but at the end of the day people don’t care. I found that when writing my speech I wrote it in the same way I would write an essay or other academic assignment. I used unnecessary vocabulary and other extra embellishments that make the speech look good on paper but not so much when it is read out loud. It’s important to write the speech as if you’re saying it rather than writing it so that you sound the most authentic. You’re a person not an AI so sound like it.

Rehearse and Repeat

If you have to memorize your speech obviously you’re going to be doing this step a lot but for those that are allowed to have a paper don’t rely too heavily on the paper. It’s important to repeat the speech over and over again so that you can look up without losing your spot or messing up. Rehearsing your speech also allows you to figure out how you want to read it, when you need to pause, all those aspects that create tone. All in all this helps you understand all the aspects you need to incorporate so that on graduation day you can kill it.

Okay guys that’s all I have for you today if you would like to see my full speech head over to my Pinterest page. I wish you the best of luck in creating an amazing speech that represents all the accomplishments you and your classmates have made. Congratulations!

-Nikki Smith